In a tender age we generally tend to do mistakes……………and parents are stubborn with us, many times they react on that. We usually do not like our parents doing that. Some parents punish their kids like anything, even on a very small mistake, but how well parents are aware that doing this would turn out to be very risky on them and the child too.
Many researchers have proved that those kids who have regularly been prey of such behavior of parents they are likely to fall under frustration and depression. Such kids gradually develop an inferiority complex on themselves.
Researchers from Mesacheutsatus University had a brief study for over 12 years on almost 4567 teenagers and found out that those who have always been scolded n demoralized by parents…………………………….slowly decline in their studies and could not score enough.
Even this has been noticed that such students drop out their studies at that level only and start working in any kind of job below their capability.
Studies have also proved that those kids who get enough of their parents love and care they have developed self-confidence and have done much better than any other kid. For a growing kid love of parents and little bit of pampering is a must.
Such kids even get lots of love in future where ever they go. They tend to grab good attention everywhere in a good way.
Researchers have advised that parents should never scold their kids for very small mistakes……………rather explain them with love. We should be given enough of love and attention and our small mistakes should be ignored. It is then, when we learn from our mistakes.
By :- S. Noor and Namarata Sharma (Teennews1 network team)