Today:- May – Do you think Mother’s day can change the degree of love and respect of children for their mothers in any way?
I love you mom if……There are a lots of ” if’s” and ” buts” connected with mother’s love.
Kids,teens and youth have become very modern, be it their style or actions.Now a days teens want their mom to dress up in modern way but on the other hand they want their to be Mother India or the mother of 80’s cinema.
Mother who is accepted in the modern world by their kids is not what she is actually is , in reality she does not have any wish, any leisure time, any source of entertainment, she is always expected to sacrifice and take all the responsibilities.
Smart,high-tech and modern children don’t like their mothers when they mix up with opposite sex pair group. They don’t like their chit-chat and laughter with other male friends.
Mothers, they look at you as you are crossing “ Children Rekha”(more like a Luxman Rekha).
They will love you only when your world revolves around them all the time. It applies on all children, no doubt, they look at all the mothers with a uniformity, whether you are a homemaker mother, working mother, single mother or an adopted child mother the child will treat alike.
There is no difference or a category for any kind of mother, the mindset is same for all kind of mother.
After so many mother’s day, so many stories of mother goddess, in fact, mothers are still not able to get he same respect in the family as the fathers.
After coming from a hectic and tedious job, children never bother to ask their mother for even a glass of water. They don’t want to see them relax on Sofa after coming home from office.If you don’t have a full time helping hand then there is no one to ask you for a cup of tea. Father on the other hand gets all unnecessary attention whether he is a simple clerk or earning less than mother.
Wait till the time when the Home would be as sensitive, as cozy for mothers as they are now for fathers.
My dear children no matter what the mother does, be it pampering herself a bit by shopping or going out with friends, you will always be their first and top most priority. Your health, education, career and utmost thing your happiness would always be her priority of concern. So, trust her,respect her feelings and learn from her experience. She will love you in any circumstances, it is natural for them and none can take that way from them. Mothers also get a very precious thing from their children – Pure Love. Yes mothers receive pure love from their children which they never share for anybody except their own children.
By Manasi – Editor